Throw in the language barrier (while the girls I dated had decent English, fluency was lower than the Philippines and Hungary) and your struggle to win her over almost seems Sisyphean.
The important thing to remember, no matter how long it takes, is this: if she stays with you on the date, it’s because she to be there.
In Ukraine, you go on Tinder to find a girl who will you on the first date (more on that later).
Ukrainian girls’ sexual reticence is a product of both their traditionalist culture (in Lviv, church attendance is somewhere between 85 to 90 percent) and their country’s collapsing economy.
The fastest way to get a Ukrainian girl to ditch you is to have a first date at a bar and start hammering the vodka shots.
In addition to not lying about your intentions, you shouldn’t lie in order to flatter her.
I owe this tip to Roosh and Kyle Trouble: when a girl asks you what you think of Ukraine—decaying, collapsing, deindustrializing Ukraine—and you tell her you love it, she’ll know you’re full of shit.
The same cold attitude towards strangers that Ukrainian women will lead them to directly eject from a date if they’re not enjoying themselves.
If they stick around, even if they’re not talking or resisting your kisses, it means they’re interested in you, and it’s your duty to power through her skepticism.
As a result, they’re going to interrogate you on the first date like Jack Bauer. While it’s not a good idea to tell them that you came to Ukraine specifically for the girls (if that’s what you’re there for), it’s possible to frame your answers in a way that satisfies her.