A first email should be short, funny, original, and creative. The message should include a “test” to make her feel as if she absolutely must reply. I enjoy sports, playing poker, and watching movies. Most of them falling into the bad and funny categories. Like, when guys send these messages do they honestly think that the women they are sending them to don’t know that these aren’t just copied and pasted messages and sent in masses to lots of different women. They must think they are so fucking clever sending these copy and pasted messages to lots of women a night.It’s actually slightly enraging to read some of these messages that these guys are sending to some of my female friends, only because all I can think is “HOW THIS IS MY COMPETITION!? Especially when I receive screen shots of first messages like the one below : I can’t even. That, somehow they are “beating the system” and not really having to do any work, other than craft a single super generic message and send it out dozens of times.But always remember it is a numbers game and the more emails you send out the more you will get back.Okay, I’m just going to admit it, and come out and say it.
We’ve tried virtually every strategy to say “hi” in a first email on a hookup dating site. But once we learned what to say on a hookup dating site email, women almost always responded to our messages.
Only a small percentage of emails men write are ever responded by women. Plus, this was sent on a hookup site, not a relationship site. Just because I’m mostly only looking for sex doesn’t mean I don’t actually care if you’re a cool chick.