That is EXACTLY the metaphor I use for private clients in describing the “tone” you want to capture in your initial contact.
You’d never hit on a guy at a bar by walking up to him and telling him that he’s cute, he seems nice, and that you’d like to buy him a drink.
Eg, say you both have a love for adventure travel — you see that he’s been trekking in Nepal, and has visited the Amazon…
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Find the tone that shows that – and maybe he’ll feel lucky to have you.
Check the agency If you visit the website of some Dating Agency, try to read all the information about this website before you start to browse through the ad's.
Perhaps their introduction or 'About-Us' pages or other relevant pages could give you some background information of this specific Dating Agency, which could give you a 'good' or perhaps 'wrong' feeling about this site and their services.
These are organizations that will use methods to keep you as long as possible as a paid customer, or those who ask far too much money for their services.
or those that insist in a aggressive way to buy products or services from them which you never need.
And you, blind of love, thinking about that beautiful young woman, are an easy potential victim for them.